I want to stop hurting someone I love

Are your actions hurting a loved one?

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No matter how you explain or excuse it, if your partner feels scared, trapped or is physically hurt by your behaviour it’s not love – it’s abuse. Don’t let those feelings rule your life.

We can work with you to end your behaviour and help the ones you love. Start a new chapter of your life by learning how to demonstrate love in a safe and healthy way. Even if it feels like there is no light, there is a glow to guide you through. We’re here to help. 

How we help

We provide a range of support options to help you stop hurting the one that you love and define your life without abusive behaviour. Most importantly, our help is here if you want to change. It’s your journey and your choice, so don’t let what you think we’ll say stop you from getting support.

What happens when you call?

First and foremost, we’re here to listen to what you’re going through and what you need to keep safe.

Then, we’ll recommend support specific to your situation – whether that’s connecting you and your children with our safe accommodation options or guiding you on how to increase your safety at home. We can provide as much or as little help and assistance as you feel is right for you.

Don’t let what you think we might say stop you from calling us. You can live a life free from relationship abuse. Our team is here to help you do that. 

Call us
If you live in North Staffordshire: 0330 0945 559 9am–5pm, Monday to Friday. If you live in Derby or Derbyshire: 0133 2985 111 9am-8pm, Monday to Friday and 10am-4pm Saturday. If you are in immediate danger please call 999
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Find out more about Glow

Imagine a world where no one has to live through an abusive relationship or feel trapped in the cycle of abusive behaviour. That world is possible, but it starts at the heart of the issue, working to end abuse at the source and bringing recovery, education and prevention together to make a lasting impact

Our promises to you

We're always by your side

We’re always by your side

If you feel trapped and isolated by abusive behaviour, know that you don’t have to go through this alone. We’ll be here to support and walk alongside you when you need someone to be there. That’s a promise.

We're open to everyone

We’re open to everyone

Anyone can be affected by relationship abuse. That’s why we work with people from all walks of life, all genders and all ages. If we don’t have a programme that’s right for you, we’ll point you in the right direction to ensure you’re taken care of.

We’ll value your safety

We’ll value your safety

We understand that reaching for support isn’t easy. Our expertise and experience means we really do understand how important confidentiality and flexibility is for your safety. We’ll work with you to find a plan that prioritises that.

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll listen to what you want, and we won’t judge or force you into something that you don’t feel is right for you. No matter what you choose, we’ll make our support work for you.
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