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I want to stop hurting someone I love

Are your actions hurting a loved one?

No matter how you explain or excuse it, if your partner feels scared, trapped or is physically hurt by your behaviour it’s not love – it’s abuse. Don’t let those feelings rule your life.

We can work with you to end your behaviour and help the ones you love.

How we help

We provide a range of support options to help you stop hurting the one that you love and define your life without abusive behaviour. Most importantly, our help is here if you want to change.It’s your journey and your choice, so don’t let what you think we’ll say stop you from getting support.

Ways to get in touch
Whenever you feel ready to reach out and talk, get in touch and we’ll find the right help for you.
Call us

If you live in North Staffordshire: 0330 0945 559 9am–5pm, Monday to Friday.

If you live in Derby or Derbyshire: 0133 2985 111 9am-8pm, Monday to Friday and 10am-4pm Saturday.

If you are in immediate danger please call 999

Trying to contact us after 5pm?

If we’re not available, we recommend you call:


If you’re worried about your own behaviour, please contact Respect for free: 0808 802 4040

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The 180° project

The 180° Project will provide you with a varied programme of support, which is tailored to your needs following a suitability assessment.

You’ll be supported to recognise the difference between a healthy and unhealthy relationship, take accountability for your behaviour and learn to identify safer ways to deal with your emotions.

We understand that it can be difficult to talk about these things. That’s why we’ll listen to you and help you identify your key priorities to make changes.

Find out more about Glow

Imagine a world where no one has to live through an abusive relationship or feel trapped in the cycle of abusive behaviour. That world is possible, but it starts at the heart of the issue, working to end abuse at the source and bringing recovery, education and prevention together to make a lasting impact

Our promises to you

We're always by your side

We’re always by your side

If you feel trapped and isolated by abusive behaviour, know that you don’t have to go through this alone. We’ll be here to support and walk alongside you when you need someone to be there. That’s a promise.

We're open to everyone

We’re open to everyone

Anyone can be affected by relationship abuse. That’s why we work with people from all walks of life, all genders and all ages. If we don’t have a programme that’s right for you, we’ll point you in the right direction to ensure you’re taken care of.

We’ll value your safety

We’ll value your safety

We understand that reaching for support isn’t easy. Our expertise and experience means we really do understand how important confidentiality and flexibility is for your safety. We’ll work with you to find a plan that prioritises that.

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll listen to what you want, and we won’t judge or force you into something that you don’t feel is right for you. No matter what you choose, we’ll make our support work for you.
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