Help for men
Find the glow

Men suffer from abuse too, and we’re here to change that. You might find it hard to talk about what you’re going through, but we’re here to listen and help. Our approach is unique as our services are delivered by men, for men. 

We offer support for men from all ages and backgrounds. No matter what you’re going through we can help you to address, overcome or end abusive behaviour and help you to define your life without abuse.

Need someone to talk to or know someone who does?

If you are in immediate danger please call 999

How we help

We support you and your children to:

  • Find a way out of your abusive relationship
  • Recognise healthy and unhealthy behaviour to help you make more informed relationship choices in the future
  • Recover from abuse and rebuild your life
  • Access safe accommodation
  • Get specialist support and advice on how to stay safe
  • Access group recovery programmes with others in your situation and one-to-one support
Whatever your story, we’ll find support that’s right for you.

How do I know if it's abuse?

How do I know if it’s abuse?

Most of the time, if it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t right.
Know the signs

Help if you're experiencing abusive behaviour

Help if you’re experiencing abusive behaviour

If you’re currently experiencing abusive behaviour in your relationship, we can support you.
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Help if you're responsible for abusive behaviour

Help if you’re responsible for abusive behaviour

If you think you may be responsible for abusive behaviour in your relationship, we can support you to change your behaviour.
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Tom's story

“With your support it has helped me to realise that it wasn’t my fault. This has come a huge relief as I always blamed myself and excused my partners behaviour. I now accept that I was being abused. This has helped me to get my confidence back and be in a happier and safer place.”

Whatever your story, we’ll find support that’s right for you.

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Our promises to you

We're always by your side

We’re always by your side

If you feel trapped and isolated by abusive behaviour, know that you don’t have to go through this alone. We’ll be here to support and walk alongside you when you need someone to be there. That’s a promise.

We're open to everyone

We’re open to everyone

Anyone can be affected by relationship abuse. That’s why we work with people from all walks of life, all genders and all ages. If we don’t have a programme that’s right for you, we’ll point you in the right direction to ensure you’re taken care of.

We’ll value your safety

We’ll value your safety

We understand that reaching for support isn’t easy. Our expertise and experience means we really do understand how important confidentiality and flexibility is for your safety. We’ll work with you to find a plan that prioritises that.

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll respect your choices

We’ll listen to what you want, and we won’t judge or force you into something that you don’t feel is right for you. No matter what you choose, we’ll make our support work for you.
Find out more about Glow

Imagine a world where no one has to live through an abusive relationship or feel trapped in the cycle of abusive behaviour. That world is possible, but it starts at the heart of the issue, working to end abuse at the source and bringing recovery, education and prevention together to make a lasting impact

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If you live in North Staffordshire: 0330 0945 559 9am–5pm, Monday to Friday. If you live in Derby or Derbyshire: 0133 2985 111 9am-8pm, Monday to Friday and 10am-4pm Saturday. If you are in immediate danger please call 999
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